Men want you to trust them. They say "I am not like the other men you have dated you can trust me." Yet when they say they will call at 7 and the call never comes you start to wonder. Your imagination runs away in every direction. This happens whether you are secure or not. If a man I am dating (or not dating actually) tells me he is going to call me at a certain time then I expect him to call me at the time HE specified. If he calls a few hours later with an excuse I just question it and shrug it off. If this happens more than 3 times in a row....he can go fuck himself, he is not worth it. Men tend to think that they are the best things since sliced bread, let me tell you all something.. you are not. A man must prove himself and his worthiness to a woman just as a woman has to do to a man. We can not just accept any man that comes running our way. Why should we make things that easy..just kidding. Relationships and love and trust are not something to throw caution to the wind. Yes I do believe in love at first sight and yes it has happened to me, but it had disappeared almost just as quickly as it had come and those 7-8 months of bliss were just that and sometimes I think I regret it but then I stop and think and then I am like "wow that was some powerful, erotic, mindblowing love." The passion is so intense as the feelings are, yes it does end but when you go back and think about it..It was intense and a great experience. I want that. I want that every day of my life for the rest of my life. I want to wake up and look over at my husband and know that he is the greatest thing that has happened to me and I to him. I want to know that I cant live without him and he cant live without me. I want him to treasure, love and respect me and our beautiful children. I want him to respect the fact that I have a career and work around our schedules with our children so I will still be able to have my career and be happy. I am a very independent woman and I need that. I need a man who can handle that. I need a man who will not put restrictions on my goals, aspirations, and dreams. Are you strong enough to be my man?
