The Four Letter Word

Unio Mystica~A. Gonzalez
Love~ that is the four letter word..Not the other one.. sick-o's. I have, of late, been hearing the l-word. I think people have once again abused the word, overused it and it has lost its meaning. And ladies, just because a man tells you he loves you and that you should have sex with him.. well, perhaps you should think a little harder..lol (it has happened to me, of course I laughed hard at him) I do not like it when the l-word is abused. For me it has a great and powerful meaning to it. It is the center of all life. Without it we wilt and die and I have truly become to believe it. It saddens me to know and feel that love is taken for granted and that people say things they dont mean or feel. Playing with someone's emotions is the most tragic thing a person can do. I think another awful thing is when men expect more than what they will give. Or when men hide behind a mask. Its funny how they act all interested, when in fact they just want entertainment or to use you. I know this is not all men (sorry to the nice ones that are left) I do know you are there and that you exist but your imposters are out of control. There seems to be a plethora of them. I love being in love. I love feeling that warmth and security. I love knowing that I am loved and wanted and that when my phone rings and my heart skips a beat, that his voice will be there. I love the comfort of a man's arms around me. I love my skin on his. I love the strolls on the beach, the long sunday drives, the trolloping in the fields. I love the erotica of exploring each others bodies. Limbs entwined. I love showers together. Being in love makes me feel so alive, free, renewed; more than what I already am. I like submitting myself to him and giving him all of me, all that I have to give, knowing I will get the same in return. Love must be 50-50 or it will not work. It must be shared equally, balanced. "Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get-only with what you are expecting to give-which is everything." K.Hepburn. "Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind; and therefore is wing'd cupid painted blind" Shakespeare. Those are two touching quotes I read over and over. Please just remember one thing, dont pretend that you love someone, dont say the words if it is not how you feel. It is wrong and misleading. Dont lie.